|You all are the ahhhh to my shoki...*mwaaah*|
*Ding dong merrily on high, in heaven the bells are ringing....
*Ding dong merrily reply...the angels they are singing.....
So this season, I'll sing a Christmas hymn as intro for my posts....*thumbs up*. I've not gotten my Christmas cloth sha... I told my friend that I don't have Christmas cloth and he said I'm childish... who doesn't buy Christmas shoe and cloth? Raise your hand now lemme see... So I'm not alone sha.
Hello mi lovies toh splufik..rated toh badt...*wink*.. how are you and how's your Monday going? I've decided to quit the 'I hate Mondays' attitude so this is what I'll do... I'll keep assuming every Monday is Friday ...LOL....even though I know it is impossible. Hehe.
Mehn there is no weekend download today o..(like seriously....*sad face*).... My weekend was boring like shit..(everything is like shit....LOL).... I didn't even go to church....Imagine! I caught the flu over the weekend and so I was practically handicapped ......all weekend...*sighs*.
Y'all remember me ranting on Thursday about the heat? Remember I wished for rain? Well Rain fell on that day and guess what folks?...... Harmattan is here..Yay!!! *dancing shoki remix in blues...LOL..*....I Woke up this morning and I smelt Harmattan. .....Yes I smell things like that.Don't ask me how though...it's just one of my super powers ..hehehe. I'm so happy.
News!......I have 3 new friends..*big smile*..... The way I always take this friendship issue as a big deal ehn?...Well yea it's a big deal to me * straight face*... I Wanna give a shout out to Jamie, Eniola and GB (yep he finally found his way to my heart....thanks hun for the gift... God bless you). Also Duru has finally got me into his confused world...*rolls eyes +deep sigh*.... I just can't shout but I'm loving it there...... Zoe I've missed you and you know it. What's going on mami? Don't let me come and kidnap you oo...Cos I have learnt some A class kidnapping skills....LOL.
Though there is no weekend download or gist, I still have something for us..(ain't I just sweet like that *big grin*)..... I got this message from a friend of mine (Hello padi mi Raliat.... *yeah that's how I greet her) and I just thought to share with you cos it kind of speaks to me too.
Mobylizers of life, I hope you learn a lot from this piece.....as much as I did.....
These days we have found it really difficult to loosen up. Well...some would call it INTEGRITY, but I call it PRIDE!!!
Have you wondered and asked yourself why some relationships these days won't just work out? It's because nobody wants to reach out and nobody wants to be sorry. You will see some relationships and marriages working out fine.... it's not like they don't have their issues, of course they do, but they never let pride get in their way as they would always reach out to each other, regardless the gender.
I'm so sad about the way things are going and also about the many stories I hear about some relationships...be it a Guy or a Lady, don't let this egocentric nature get in your way.
Guys!!!! DON'T say because you are a man you'd just watch the lady you truly love walk away and most especially ladies!!! Drop the drama, loosen up, reach out to the one you love , don't let him walk away. It would even hurt you more seeing him with another lady so get out of that your uncomfy shoes and run as fast as you can after him, either for being sorry for the wrong you have done to him or for a fresh start relationship. Forget who approaches who first... just go for him, it won't hurt. And for those in a relationship, don't wait for your spouse to call you first because he is the man, you both are in it together. Pick up your phone and make the call, forget him reciprocating because of his busy schedules. Even if he doesn't return the calls, he sees it all, he knows you are trying your best and of course, it doesn't mean the guys should take it for granted or take advantage of that.
REACH OUT TODAY....... If you really like someone and you want to know more about that person, my dear brothers and sisters, do not let pride get in the way of the potential love...I repeat!!! Do not let PRIDE get in the way!!!.. Reach out today.... Tell someone how much You want to be in their life... Life is too short to let Ego rule you .... Have a fabulous week ahead of you all ..... God's blessing my people...
That's it Mobylizers...Power packed, filled with wisdom and truth and very practical....lets try and be better people to those we claim to love and even those we are hoping to have something with. Treat people better and you'll always get the best from them. I can never get tired of telling you all I love you. Yes I love you... Thanks for taking the time out to read this. God bless you *in Jamie's voice* *winks*